Anonymous asked
its kinda hard to not want to see through the videos he makes about breaking up with his exs and stuff. i mean the last time that it actually was true was when sky asked him for a divorce in the end of one of his haters united videos. i think that was actually legit. He is an attention seeker and uses comedy to express his fucked up life. i would not be surprised if a lot of fucked up shit in his videos are actually a real thing just over exaggerated...

Hey Taylor, get a good lawyer if that divorce comes around.  You don’t want him talking about all the details of your relationship when you have a pre-nup and a confidentiality clause.

perspicious:

WHAT YOU SHOULD DO:    Stay with us and keep calm.The last thing we need when we’re panicking, is to have someone else panicking with us.
Offer medicine if we usually take it during an attack.You might have to ask whether or not we take medicine- heck, some might not; but please, ask. It really helps.
Move us to a quiet place.We need time to think, to breathe. Being surrounded by people isn’t going to help.
Don’t make assumptions about what we need. Ask.We’ll tell you what we need. Sometimes; you may have to ask- but never assume.
Speak to us in short, simple sentences.
Be predictable. Avoid surprises.
Help slow our breathing by breathing us or by counting slowly to 10.As odd as it sounds, it works.


WHAT YOU SHOULDN’T DO:1. Say, “You have nothing to be panicked about.”We know. Weknow. We know. And because we know we have nothing to be panicked about, we panic even more. When I realize that my anxiety is unfounded, I panic even more because then I feel like I’m not in touch with reality. It’s unsettling. Scary.Most of the time, a panic attack is irrational. Sometimes they stem from circumstances — a certain couch triggers a bad memory or being on an airplane makes you claustrophobic or a break up causes you to flip your lid — but mostly, the reasons I’m panicking are complex, hard to articulate or simply, unknown. I could tell myself all day that I have no reason to be having a panic attack and I would still be panicking. Sometimes, because I’m a perfectionist, I become even more overwhelmed when I think my behaviour is “unacceptable” (as I often believe it is when I’m panicking). I know it’s all in my mind, but my mind can be a pretty dark and scary place when it gets going.Alternate suggestion: Say, “I understand you’re upset. It is okay. You have a right to be upset and I am here to help.”2. Say, “Calm down.”This reminds me of a MadTV sketch where Bob Newhart plays a therapist who tells his patients to simply “Stop it!” whenever they express anxiety or fear. As a sketch, it’s funny. In real life, it’s one of the worst things you can do to someone having a panic attack. When someone tells me to “stop panicking” or to “calm down,” I just think, “Oh, okay. I haven’t tried that one. Hold on, let me get outa pen and paper and jot that down, you jerk.”Instead of taking action so that they do relax, simply telling a panicking person to “calm down” or “stop it” does nothing. No-thing.Alternate suggestion: The best thing to do is to listen and support. In order to calm them down without the generalities, counting helps.3. Say, “I’m just going to leave you alone for a minute.”Being left alone while panicking makes my heart race even harder. The last thing I want is to be left by myself with my troubled brain. Many of my panic attacks spark from over-thinking and it’s helpful to have another person with me, not only for medical reasons (in case I pass out or need water) but also it’s helpful to have another person around to force me to think about something other than the noise in my head.Alternate suggestion: It sometimes helps me if the person I’m with distracts me by telling me a story or sings to me. I need to get out of my own head and think about something other than my own panic.4. Say, “You’re overreacting.”Here’s the thing: I’m not. Panic attacks might be in my head, but I’m in actual physical pain. If you’d cut open your leg, no one would be telling you you’re overreacting. It’s a common trope in mental health to diminish the feelings or experience of someone suffering from anxiety or panic because there’s no visible physical ailment and because there’s no discernible reason for the person to be having such a strong fear reaction.The worst thing you can tell someone who is panicking is that they are overreacting.Alternate suggestion: Treat a panic attack like any other medical emergency. Listen to what the person is telling you. Get them water if they need it. It helps me if someone rubs my back a little. If you’re in over your head, don’t hesitate to call 911 (or whatever the emergency services number is where you are). But please, take the person seriously. Mental health deserves the same respect as physical health.

CREDIT [X]  [X]

perspicious:

WHAT YOU SHOULD DO:
    
  1. Stay with us and keep calm.
    The last thing we need when we’re panicking, is to have someone else panicking with us.

  2. Offer medicine if we usually take it during an attack.
    You might have to ask whether or not we take medicine- heck, some might not; but please, ask. It really helps.

  3. Move us to a quiet place.
    We need time to think, to breathe. Being surrounded by people isn’t going to help.

  4. Don’t make assumptions about what we need. Ask.
    We’ll tell you what we need. Sometimes; you may have to ask- but never assume.

  5. Speak to us in short, simple sentences.

  6. Be predictable. Avoid surprises.

  7. Help slow our breathing by breathing us or by counting slowly to 10.
    As odd as it sounds, it works.
WHAT YOU SHOULDN’T DO:

1. Say, “You have nothing to be panicked about.”
We know. Weknow. We know. And because we know we have nothing to be panicked about, we panic even more. When I realize that my anxiety is unfounded, I panic even more because then I feel like I’m not in touch with reality. It’s unsettling. Scary.

Most of the time, a panic attack is irrational. Sometimes they stem from circumstances — a certain couch triggers a bad memory or being on an airplane makes you claustrophobic or a break up causes you to flip your lid — but mostly, the reasons I’m panicking are complex, hard to articulate or simply, unknown. I could tell myself all day that I have no reason to be having a panic attack and I would still be panicking. Sometimes, because I’m a perfectionist, I become even more overwhelmed when I think my behaviour is “unacceptable” (as I often believe it is when I’m panicking). I know it’s all in my mind, but my mind can be a pretty dark and scary place when it gets going.

Alternate suggestion: Say, “I understand you’re upset. It is okay. You have a right to be upset and I am here to help.”


2. Say, “Calm down.”
This reminds me of a MadTV sketch where Bob Newhart plays a therapist who tells his patients to simply “Stop it!” whenever they express anxiety or fear. As a sketch, it’s funny. In real life, it’s one of the worst things you can do to someone having a panic attack. When someone tells me to “stop panicking” or to “calm down,” I just think, “Oh, okay. I haven’t tried that one. Hold on, let me get outa pen and paper and jot that down, you jerk.

Instead of taking action so that they do relax, simply telling a panicking person to “calm down” or “stop it” does nothing. No-thing.

Alternate suggestion: The best thing to do is to listen and support. In order to calm them down without the generalities, counting helps.


3. Say, “I’m just going to leave you alone for a minute.”
Being left alone while panicking makes my heart race even harder. The last thing I want is to be left by myself with my troubled brain. Many of my panic attacks spark from over-thinking and it’s helpful to have another person with me, not only for medical reasons (in case I pass out or need water) but also it’s helpful to have another person around to force me to think about something other than the noise in my head.

Alternate suggestion: It sometimes helps me if the person I’m with distracts me by telling me a story or sings to me. I need to get out of my own head and think about something other than my own panic.


4. Say, “You’re overreacting.”
Here’s the thing: I’m not. Panic attacks might be in my head, but I’m in actual physical pain. If you’d cut open your leg, no one would be telling you you’re overreacting. It’s a common trope in mental health to diminish the feelings or experience of someone suffering from anxiety or panic because there’s no visible physical ailment and because there’s no discernible reason for the person to be having such a strong fear reaction.

The worst thing you can tell someone who is panicking is that they are overreacting.

Alternate suggestion: Treat a panic attack like any other medical emergency. Listen to what the person is telling you. Get them water if they need it. It helps me if someone rubs my back a little. If you’re in over your head, don’t hesitate to call 911 (or whatever the emergency services number is where you are). But please, take the person seriously. Mental health deserves the same respect as physical health.

CREDIT [X]  [X]

hey-hi-urcute:

The two most beautiful people I’ve ever laid eyes on :0 Grandy for life

Wow, I feel sorry for Taylor.
Anonymous asked
He claims he is pansexual because of some imaginary scenario that if his wife woke up with a dick he would still fuck her. News flash dude your sexual orientation isn't biased off of anything imaginary what we go through is real, especially bisexual and pansexual people and for you to belittle is to fit your needs is just a fucking insult.

cult-of-fuck-fuck:

cruachan59:

Puhlease that would be his dream come true, Lainey with a dick and looking like Shane Dawson

Oh, God, imagine Gerg calling her “Shainey!” That would be the creepiest shit that’s fathomable!

dankou:

I’d rather you just tell me instead of you going around telling people how miserable you are or being subtle because that just makes it a lot worse for both of us. Even if you can’t bring yourself to tell me directly just ask a friend or something to pass on the message because, funny as it may be, I can’t read minds or always notice when I’ve done something wrong. Don’t worry about offending me - I feel more offended that you’d rather tell a bunch of strangers what you feel about me instead of talking to me about it. 

Taylor may be able to benefit from seeing this.
voiceoftheblue:

cruachan59:

franciose:

laineybotdrama:

Signs of a healthy and stable relationship?

Her relationship with Greg seems to be doing okay from what I’ve seen on Twitter, although that’s not an indicator of real life, but I don’t understand why Greg has to be the one she’s talking about?She could be referring to a family member like her mom of sister.

Both are proven liars. Don’t you know she has a great relationship with her family? Her life is like Disney according to her but again proven liar.

I would like to point out here that Greg has Seperated Taylor from her family.  The people Taylor would have in the immediate area would be Greg, his mother and Troy. There has been little to no news on Greg hanging out with Selene (the red head girl? I actually forgot her name.) recently.So unless Taylor got into an argument with her parents or sister - which has happened before - the most likely occurrence is that Greg is pissed at her for introducing fish back in her diet. Which may also explain why Greg is being a butthurt wank stain today.

voiceoftheblue:

cruachan59:

franciose:

laineybotdrama:

Signs of a healthy and stable relationship?

Her relationship with Greg seems to be doing okay from what I’ve seen on Twitter, although that’s not an indicator of real life, but I don’t understand why Greg has to be the one she’s talking about?
She could be referring to a family member like her mom of sister.


Both are proven liars. Don’t you know she has a great relationship with her family? Her life is like Disney according to her but again proven liar.

I would like to point out here that Greg has Seperated Taylor from her family. The people Taylor would have in the immediate area would be Greg, his mother and Troy.
There has been little to no news on Greg hanging out with Selene (the red head girl? I actually forgot her name.) recently.

So unless Taylor got into an argument with her parents or sister - which has happened before - the most likely occurrence is that Greg is pissed at her for introducing fish back in her diet. Which may also explain why Greg is being a butthurt wank stain today.

cruachan59:

Stop asking Lamo and Onion if they are breaking up. They LOVE the attention and NO they aren’t breaking up. Onion doesn’t have his rebound in place yet and Lamo doesn’t have her college paid off yet.

cruachan59:

franciose:

laineybotdrama:

Signs of a healthy and stable relationship?

Her relationship with Greg seems to be doing okay from what I’ve seen on Twitter, although that’s not an indicator of real life, but I don’t understand why Greg has to be the one she’s talking about?She could be referring to a family member like her mom of sister.

Both are proven liars. Don’t you know she has a great relationship with her family? Her life is like Disney according to her but again proven liar.

cruachan59:

franciose:

laineybotdrama:

Signs of a healthy and stable relationship?

Her relationship with Greg seems to be doing okay from what I’ve seen on Twitter, although that’s not an indicator of real life, but I don’t understand why Greg has to be the one she’s talking about?
She could be referring to a family member like her mom of sister.


Both are proven liars. Don’t you know she has a great relationship with her family? Her life is like Disney according to her but again proven liar.

Anonymous asked
The splitting up thing is probably fake seeing as she consented to be filmed and recorded for the last video about her.
franciose:

laineybotdrama:

Signs of a healthy and stable relationship?

Her relationship with Greg seems to be doing okay from what I’ve seen on Twitter, although that’s not an indicator of real life, but I don’t understand why Greg has to be the one she’s talking about?She could be referring to a family member like her mom of sister.

franciose:

laineybotdrama:

Signs of a healthy and stable relationship?

Her relationship with Greg seems to be doing okay from what I’ve seen on Twitter, although that’s not an indicator of real life, but I don’t understand why Greg has to be the one she’s talking about?
She could be referring to a family member like her mom of sister.

Anonymous asked
I just watched his recent OnisionSpeaks video. He is pathetic. What a sad little man. The jealousy was so thick in the air that you could cut it with scissors. He is mad that mostly all of these youtubers he showed, have great relationships. Which is something he does not posses. He is hurting because he wants that. But he cant because HE is the one that screws it up with people. When will he realize that HE is the problem.

Never. Duh.

Anonymous asked
Oh my god... Greg is almost 30 and he still acts like a child.

He is a manchild. He will never cease.

spacepriince asked
do you have a tag on tumblr for photos of you? (i hope this doesn't sound weird)

laineybot:

You could use laineybot I suppose

tictacfricklefrack asked
Are you an Lainey really breaking up?